I think the most significant event for me when first coming out, was getting my ears pierced (June 11, 2015).
I had not long before been laid off, so a sudden change to the work wasn’t an issue, and this was several months after I had learned the word genderfluid, which led me to discover, well, that everything in childhood that hadn’t made sense now did. I was trans genderfluid, though still in the closet for all intents and purposes.